Once upon a time there was a rich merchant who had four wives.
He loved the fourth wife the most and adorned her with rich robes
and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave
her nothing but the best.
He also loved the third wife very much. He's very proud of her
and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the
merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with
some other man.
He too, loved his second wife. She is a very considerate person,
always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever
the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his second
wife and she would always help him out and tide him through
difficult times.
Now, the merchant's first wife is a very loyal partner and has made
great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business
as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not
love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took
notice of her.
One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that
he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself,
"Now I have four wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone.
How lonely I'll be!"
Thus, he asked the fourth wife, "I loved you most, endowed
you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that
I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"
"No way!" replied the fourth wife and she walked away without
another word.
The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.
The sad merchant then asked the third wife, "I have loved you
so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me
company?"
"No!" replied the third wife. "Life is so good over here!
I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the second wife, "I always turned to you for
help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die,
will you follow me and keep me company?"
"I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the second
wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer
came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.
Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow
you no matter where you go. " The merchant looked up and there was his first
wife.
She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition.
Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better
care of you while I could have !"
Actually, we all have four wives in our lives .......The fourth
wife is our body.No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look
good, it'll leave us when we die.
Our third wife? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we
die, they all go to others.
The second wife is our family and friends. No matter how close
they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay
by us is up to the grave.
The first wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our
pursuit of material wealth and sensual pleasure. Guess what? It is actually the
only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to
cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our death
bed to lament.